The choice about how to move forward in your pregnancy is yours alone to make. However, telling your partner what you’re considering is important—especially if you plan on staying together.
Read on to learn more about things to consider to determine if telling your partner is the right decision. Or, if you want to talk to someone in person about your pregnancy options or find free resources, contact First Choice Women’s Center to schedule a free, confidential appointment.
What Future Do You Envision with Your Partner?
If you and your partner plan to stay together, honesty and open communication are essential. This means telling your partner what pregnancy decision you’re leaning toward and letting them share their feelings about your choice.
If your partner doesn’t agree with an abortion, it’s critical to listen to their reasons so that they feel heard and understood. Although the pregnancy decision is yours alone to make, listening to your partner will help you understand where they are coming from.
Are You In Danger?
If you believe that your partner may become violent when you tell him the news, you might want to avoid telling him about your decision. Or if you do tell your partner, telling him in public will be critical.
If you’re considering abortion because you’re in a dangerous living situation, resources are available to help you choose parenting and adoption (your other pregnancy options) and stay safe. Contact us today to connect with one of our caring team members and learn more.
Have All Your Questions Been Answered?
Learning all you can about your pregnancy options is essential before making a final decision for your pregnancy. At First Choice Women’s Center, we provide free resources and services to give you the information you need to make an informed choice.
Some questions to consider include:
- Do I understand the risks of abortion (both the physical and mental health risks)?
- What might my life look like if I choose parenting or adoption?
- How might I feel if I choose abortion? Adoption? Parenting?
- Do I know what resources are available to help me if I choose parenting or adoption?
Once you learn all you can about each choice, you will feel more confident about telling your partner.
You’re Not Alone in This
Navigating your pregnancy and leaning toward a decision your partner doesn’t agree with can feel isolating—but you’re not alone in this. At First Choice Women’s Center, we’re here for you.
Contact us today to learn about all the ways we’re here to help. While we don’t refer for or perform abortions, we can help you learn the essentials you need to know first to protect your health.