I Don’t Want Another Abortion

If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy and don’t want another abortion, that’s understandable. While some women feel immediate relief after an abortion, other women face mental health complications (like depression, anxiety, regret, etc.) days, weeks, or even months later.

If this is you, we see you, and we want you to know you’re not alone. We’re here to talk about what you’re going through, and we also offer free support services that can help you decide how to take your next steps.

If you don’t want another abortion, your other pregnancy choices include parenting and adoption. Read on to learn more about these options and the factors to consider when thinking through what’s right for you.

Parenting

Does parenting feel like an impossible option right now? While worries about a lack of support or financial stability are understandable, it’s essential to keep in mind that circumstances change. What feels impossible today can become possible tomorrow by taking small steps in the right direction.

With this in mind, the most important question to ask yourself when it comes to parenting is this: Do I have a heart to parent? If the answer is yes, then you owe it to yourself to fully explore this option. These questions can help you get started:

Do I want to parent?
What are my biggest concerns when it comes to the idea of parenting?
What practical steps can I take to overcome these concerns? (For example, if you’re worried about money, can you seek a degree or certificate to get a higher-paying job?)

Adoption

Adoption is a loving option for those who may not be ready to parent but want to ensure their child has a stable and supportive home.

Adoption is centered around an adoption plan, which takes into account your desires and goals. There are three main types of adoption plans:

Open Adoption: In an open adoption, you and the adoptive family maintain direct contact, which might include visits, phone calls, and emails. Open adoption allows you to stay connected with your child and provides transparency and ongoing reassurance about the child’s well-being.
Semi-Open Adoption: Semi-open adoption involves indirect communication, usually facilitated by an adoption agency. You and the adoptive family exchange letters, photos, and updates without direct contact, offering a balance of privacy and connection.
Closed Adoption: In a closed adoption, there is no contact between you and the adoptive family after the adoption is finalized. All identifying information is kept confidential, providing privacy and a clear separation.

We’re Here for You

We understand what you’re going through right now. But you’re not alone in this. At First Choice Women’s Center, we’re here for you.